Yesterday, I was talking to one of my incredible internet friends on the phone and she was complaining about how her boyfriend was talking shit and saying that women knowing stuff about cars was a sin against nature and that all women who do are lesbians. Also about how women aren't meant to do work but that they should stay at home and behave.

I hate her boyfriend. I really do. And she knows I do. lol It's fun to talk trash about him but I respect her for staying with him even if I don't understand it.

I commented on how that was complete shit and how he was a sexist dumbass for saying stuff like that. He says shit like that all the time but nobody ever corrects him because he's "scary" because he's a 6 foot tall Mexican. *rolls eyes*

Some of the stuff he's done to her and said just make me want to drive down to Texas and beat his ass. According to her, even though he's a rather big tough dude, he's actually a huge puss when it comes to fighting. It sounds to me like he needs someone to kick his ass.

I'm not really a fighter. I'd rather melt somebody's mind verbally than cave their face in. Sure, I can punch but that doesn't mean I like it. (That made two years in taekwondo interesting...)

Gah, it just infuriates me that she keeps picking the assholes, lets them toy with her, and then it all ends horribly. Then the cycle repeats and I hear all about it. I don't mind because she's one of my favorite people but still, it's kindof masochistic how she holds on. Which I really shouldn't be surprised but I hate seeing her get hurt so often.

I won't go into too much detail for her sake. The basics are he's an indiscriminate manipulative asshole (she's a manipulator too but to a smaller degree and she knows when she's hurting someone), he's INCREDIBLY unintelligent yet is unbearably pretentious, and she's got him wound so tightly around her finger that it's cutting off the blood to her brain.

She's a professional at parasitic relationships (which doesn't sound good but it's almost an art for her) but I think this is one ugly-ass leech she can do without.

Bah. The horrible part is that he's got her under such an inferiority complex that she isn't able to leave him right now. She manipulates through positive means (yeah, it's possible) but he just goes right to the core and sucks up the marrow. She keeps sending me pictures of what she's done to herself because she gets so depressed after they fight. I realize that I could just walk away and that she's manipulating me into caring but hell, I don't mind. She doesn't really need to do that and I can tell when she is because I've known her for almost three years now. I just like her to know that there's someone who cares out of choice rather than intimidation.

...I have class now otherwise I could go on forever about her and her boyfriend. Gods know, I got an earful of it yesterday.